Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Unwanted Relationships

I wrote a post a while back about lupus and relationships. The main idea of that post was whether or not love is possible with Lupus. The conclusion - of course!

My feelings on this topic varies. Sometimes I feel like I just want to be 100% ok with me before delving into any relationships. I think that is a fair thing to want. Other days, my opinion changes. With all of the things out there that can cause stress in a relationship....who would willingly commit themselves to a person with such an unpredictable disease? In the end, the more I ask myself that question I realize how many great people there are out there and are not bothered by such things.

Now what about unwanted advances from people who obviously WANT to be in a relationship with you?

I'm a nice person and don't know if I have it in me to just say "um..no I'm not interested", especially if this is person is supposed to be a friend. I'm also not wanting to lead anyone on in any sort of way.

It's especially annoying when people ask you all sorts of personal questions in an attempt to figure you out. These questions include things like asking you what your "boyfriend" would think of that, so that your response can be "teehee, I don't have a boyfriend!". I never give them the satisfaction of an actual answer and it doesn't matter if I do or don't have a boyfriend at that time. Especially at this time of the year, the questions can also include "oh, so what did you do for valentine's day?". HATE THAT.

I supposed I'm going to have to post an update as to the happenings of this particular story in my life. Stay tuned!

Also, i'd like to send a shout out to my girl. She a loyal fan of my blog and she always reads it. So, shout outs to you, NICOLE!! Luv u, girl!

1 thought(s):

Diane J Standiford said...

No advice, you got it going. I believe in fate so, when it happens it happens. Here's hoping it happens. Cheers! glub glub glub
(Metamucel)

 
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